Wednesday 9 January 2013

RESPECT....TRUST

A while ago, as i was riding, I've realized how precious life was. You never know how things might turn out....
It doesn't matter how and what you plan, your life as already been designed in your best interest and there is not much you can do about it. It's either you follow it and you take it as it comes, or you go your way and make sure that you exactly where u want to go otherwise you will loose your way....
Of all the things I've seen, heard and been through,  what I've learn from it always seem to open my eyes more and more each day....
OK!!! So we all seem to have something or someone that bothers us so bad that we get so  wrapped up in the situation that we begin to question so many things: our entourage, our trust, our beliefs!!!! In friendship, family,  relationship, 2 things that drives us to each other are the things we have in common AND the things we bring to each other. I recently heard to saying that really spoke to me and that i would like to share with you...
"I do not trust people who don't love themselves and yet tell me, 'I love you'. There is an African saying which is: Be careful when a naked person offers you a shirt".
- Maya Angelou

"Friendship-my definition-is built on two things. Respect and trust. Both elements have to be there. And is has to be mutual. You can have respect for someone, but if you don't have trust, the friendship will crumble."
-Mikael Blomkvist

The most important things we shall accept is to trust and respect ourselves first. That means follow your instincts. That's where true wisdom manifests itself...There are two ways to slide easily through life: to believe everything or to doubt everything; both ways save us from thinking...One thing is for sure, it doesn't matter what you decide to do, it is YOUR DECISION...YOU have to decide whether or not to trust someone...