MY BELIEF

Our time on earth is counted,
As much as we take it for granted,
We could spend 100 years on it.
As a matter of fact some of us do wish that.
Do not forget that we might also spent 1 minute on it.

Life is a gift
Indeed they say.
Merely, do ask yourself,
Why do i keep seeing the days, the month, the years past
Next to my fellow citizen of the world,
When some only see so little time?
Is my life more precious?
Or are they actually too precious to accompany me ?

As hard as it might be
We are so many that do not fulfill our best in our full potential.
I do believe in Destiny,
I do believe we all have a purpose.
Although I do believe that we have the choice to follow
The path or write our own.
Whether or not it is right in other's eyes.

                  This is MY BELIEF
"Do not condemn yourself into believing somebody else's truth, built, understand and live by your own..."
                  Your Life, your Truth

RESPECT....TRUST

A while ago, as i was riding, I've realized how precious life was. You never know how things might turn out....
It doesn't matter how and what you plan, your life as already been designed in your best interest and there is not much you can do about it. It's either you follow it and you take it as it comes, or you go your way and make sure that you exactly where u want to go otherwise you will loose your way....
Of all the things I've seen, heard and been through,  what I've learn from it always seem to open my eyes more and more each day....
OK!!! So we all seem to have something or someone that bothers us so bad that we get so  wrapped up in the situation that we begin to question so many things: our entourage, our trust, our beliefs!!!! In friendship, family,  relationship, 2 things that drives us to each other are the things we have in common AND the things we bring to each other. I recently heard to saying that really spoke to me and that i would like to share with you...
"I do not trust people who don't love themselves and yet tell me, 'I love you'. There is an African saying which is: Be careful when a naked person offers you a shirt".
- Maya Angelou

"Friendship-my definition-is built on two things. Respect and trust. Both elements have to be there. And is has to be mutual. You can have respect for someone, but if you don't have trust, the friendship will crumble."
-Mikael Blomkvist

The most important things we shall accept is to trust and respect ourselves first. That means follow your instincts. That's where true wisdom manifests itself...There are two ways to slide easily through life: to believe everything or to doubt everything; both ways save us from thinking...One thing is for sure, it doesn't matter what you decide to do, it is YOUR DECISION...YOU have to decide whether or not to trust someone...

Are you doing OK?

Let's ride for a moment!!!!

          Very often, and mostly everyday we are asked that one simple question: how are you doing?

And the often answer that comes to our mind is: "I'm fine thank you. How about you?"...Weirdly it is the first answer that do come to our minds, although it is not the  most truthful one. 

Take a moment and ask yourself: am I really doing OK?  Or am I just pretending just to feel and make it seem as if i'm pulling everything together. 

As the days passes by, we intend to let ourselves, the real us, get swallowed by the people around us.

We are just like an iceberg...What we show the world is the one-eight of it above but whats below.... Where am I? Am I where i want to be? Have I lost sight of my wanting? Or have i chosen my needs? This is your life and you're the king/queen in your kingdom.  So do right by you.

Are you OK? Honestly, that is one question I would personally like to say: NO comment.(but that is just me :))...

The fact is, sometimes, taking a deep breath and letting those worries, those frustrations come out with one little drop of tear or on a punching bag, can do you good. 

As I'm coming down the horse, let me leave you with a word from Yovko Bonev 

Stress is not a reaction. Rather it is the price we pay for the "civilized" life we live which by the way is not civilized at all.

It's not you it's me

Let's ride a horse for a second here...

          We've all been in relationships, some of us are in , other's are on the way. And It does happen that sometimes we need to get out of one ... That's when we get the usual " it's not you, it's me " ... Or the oh so famous " The next guy (or girl) who comes , and will be your mate is going to be a very lucky guy " .... WHAT THE HELL !!!!!!!
          When u want to break up with somebody , be honest. Why isn't it simpler to just say the real reasons why you are taking the decision. Are you falling for someone else ? Do you believe you don't go together anymore? Are the feelings just not there? Is the magic all gone? ... Was there any feelings in the first place? ... When you stand up to someone , and say : " it's not you , it's me ? "..... What are they suppose to get out of that ?... if you are dumping the girl , because she's a nutcase , TELL HER ! Do not say it's not her , it's you .... We both know it's HER !!!! if you are dumping the guy because he's a weirdo , TELL HIM that it's HIM ! .... Once you are honest, there is nothing else to do ... Truth might hurt, but truth it is ...
           When you get " The next guy who comes " speech ... i have one question , What the hell is that suppose to mean? ... If you say the next person to come is going to be the luckiest on earth , I'm going to assume you don't approve of luck. If i'm so amazing , what do you have against amazing people ?! Don't push a compliment in between insults like that. All your partner is going to hear is that something is wrong with them , even though they are sooo AMAZING ( you say ) , They are still not perfect enough for you ..

So the truth is , your partner would seriously appreciate to be hurt by the truth , rather then to go down with an ambiguous compliment . Leaving them stranded with feelings they can no longer share, with emotions they have to swallow ...
                            So ride the horse , get on with it, Truth be told, be Honest. !!!!!

Question of the day!!!

Let's ride that horse for a second !!!

    If an ExtraSmall is smaller then a Small
    if an ExtraLarge is larger then a Large
    Is there were to be an ExtraMedium
   Would it be smaller or larger then a Medium??????

Seriously, Think about it!!!!

   

Helleur!!!!!!!!

Let's ride a horse!!! 
       Everyone lives life through the experience of others and also in having our own. What do you say about reading a story while it is revealed to you into little pieces of words. Actually our day to day life is not so different, we meet people, we make friends, we fight with others and ourselves. It's not easy to live in this world of ours these days, so just consider me as your friend who is keeping you company and talking about our lives. 
             Are you ready to ride the horse with me ?  ;)